Sexual harassment, all over the press, hits close to home

Yesterday was literally the first day after months, I said to myself that I’m finally feeling better. The heaviness, the panic about my son, the anxiety, all seemed to have abated!

Then I went to see an endocrinologist whom I hadn’t seen in a couple of years. He sort of grilled me about why I hadn’t come to see him. I said my psychiatrist had recommended someone else. Anyway, we got through that or so i thought.

Then he put his stethoscope in his ears, came at me and roughly pulled my button down shirt out, stuck his nose sort of inside my shirt, to get a good look I assume, then stuck the stethoscope inside my shirt to listen to my heart!!

Then he walked behind me, yanked my shirt out of my pants, had a good look at my butt and stuck The stethoscope inside my shirt on my back to listen to my lungs!!

Now why did he have to do that? He did not have to yank and tug at my shirt. He could have listened to my heart and lungs perfectly well from the outside of my shirt.

It all happened so quickly, I had no time to protest or react. I’m kicking myself that I didn’t tell him to stop.

Obviously, I’m not going back to him and I am writing him a letter on which I will cc the AMA and send a copy to the complaints department of the AMA.

Whether he is angry or a voyeur or both, he definitely should have some consequences for his sick actions.

Very disappointed and feel pretty bad again. Damn him for taking my hard won peace of mind.

5 thoughts on “Sexual harassment, all over the press, hits close to home

  1. Holy sh*t – that ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I am SO proud of you for being proactive through writing the letter and by not letting the cretin get away with what he did – he could and most likely will do similar sick, toxic, abusive behavior to others. I believe you will get good karma for speaking out, although I know that’s not why you’re doing it – but I want to state for the Universe Record you should get lots of good karma here!

    Thank you, my dear Samina, for being incredibly brave by writing about this horrible incident!
    I support you! And you inspire me to no end.


    • My dearest Dyane, thank you so much!!! Your support and positive words made me feel so much better. I felt like crawling into a hole and just asking myself why me? But I won’t! I won’t let him get away with this, he is a total scum bag and needs to pay for what he did. And you’re right, I’m not the only one, there are others he’s done this to. Disgusting.
      Thank you dearest friend, for always supporting me. I appreciate you to the moon and back. With lots of love and hugs.

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